Cathy, that actually does help a lot thanks. Very interesting strategies there on how to give both dogs attention. It seems equal attention but not necessarily at the same time or doing the same activities is the way to go.
Similarly, we adopted a dog who wasn’t all that socialised. The existing old dog (he’s middle-aged really
got bullied from time to time and there was a definite tension about the house. The feeling of guilt at poor existing dog’s predicament was tough for us. There is a definite conflict within my head whether or not the new lad should stay.
We gave them treats for being in each other’s company. Time apart for them DID help. We only spotted this over 1 year on when we sent the newbie up the DSPCA boarding kennels by himself. He came back refreshed not having to bother himself micro-managing the old lad. Meanwhile old lad had a ball getting his way.
I have to say, couldn’t bear to part with new lad. He’s great with people, he’s himself. It took like 18 months for the 2 dogs to start licking each other’s faces…BUT it HAS happened.
Do you have any more tips on how to get a dog to get on with strange dogs? That is the one nut we have to crack.
Thank you for all the information,it is a great help,.
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